Men really are different than women. I've found through years of marrige that calm talking and speaking and telling him exactly what you want is better than wanting him to "know" what you want and need. Sometimes, some men just don't get it and Need us women to just straight out tell them, lay it all out and be honest. I have found this to work for me and I am hoping everything will turn out for you either way. I posted on the other thread about your mom and I just wanted you to know that she's in my prayers, and so are you. |