Have you guys talked about your future? Like do you think you will get married or just stay dating for awhile? Cause being a few states away is hard especially for along time & especially if you don't know where its going. Believe me I know! My husband is in the Air Force & when we were dating we were a state away. But our solution was to get married so we wouldn't have the long distance thing. Ya, that's a quick fix, but we planned on getting married anyway, just did it a little sooner! My suggestion would be to talk about your future and where your going. And if he's like, I dunno...then maybe you don't call him, email him or anything for a few days & maybe he'll get the picture! Good luck!