Ok well he just called me at work. He said he had no idea what he did wrong and he got home from duty at 5:30 am mon and fell asleep. To which I told him you know if you knew you were tired and I don't doubt it, you should have called me on the way home and said duty was long I am going to sleep but wanted to call you any way. Said he didn't think I'd be up told him that's what a voice mail is for. There was lots of blank air on his side. Started asking me about my mom and I filled him in as I started crying. Said he was sorry, did the man thing trying to make you feel better and not doing much good.he told me he can't read minds and i should have called him the moment I took mom to the hospital, told him I was a bit busy with other items. I told him I would call instead of sending a peeved e-mail if something he did or didn't do gets me angry and I told him he better call me when he says he will. Told him I worry about him since we are states away from each other and wouldn't hear anthing is something happened. Told me I didn't need to worry about him
yeah like that's going to happen. Told him I am worried and stressed enough about my mom that worrying about him when all he has to do is call is not that much to ask.
He can just be so aggravating sometimes, at times he is calling, e-mailing, and IMing me all the time and other times I feel like I have to remind him. He is the first guy I have loved and been with this long and sometimes I just wonder wether this is normal guy behavior or just him. And I really don't have any friends except the girl I work with and YT members to give me any incite and my mom doesn't help too much cause with her chronic migraines and all the meds sometimes she thinks he is great and other times she tells me to dump him.