Please take this as constructive advice -- SLOW DOWN a bit
! Just as you got a little snippy & sarcastic here just because you were not answered in
less than 2 hours, I think you might be jumping the gun just a little on giving advice to a breeder. She does sound like she is in need of some mentoring -- but a mentor is experienced and knowledgable. Maybe you could provide her with some websites, or even some copied material from this forum. (Check out some of the stickies at the beginning of each forum section.) But when you shoot from the hip without being truly knowledgable yourself, you could do more harm than good. If she finds your advice to be in error, she might just decide she really does know what she is doing and close her mind to advice. You don't want that.
For instance -- you tell her that just because her 13 week old puppy is not any bigger than your Mac, who you said on April 1st was 1 pound 8 ounces --(at least I THINK that is what you meant and not really the "1.8 oz" you wrote). I am guessing Mac is now almost 7 weeks old and has probably gained significantly since the 1st? It is NOT AT ALL unusual for a very normal sized 13 week old puppy to be around 2 pounds. That is a good healthy size. The difference in a few ounces is difficult to gauge as they all have different body types. A puppy that size could VERY WELL be large enough to breed as an adult. There are lots of varibles and the growth charts are only guesstimates. So, trying to tell her that her dog will not be big enough to breed at this point is not a good idea. Too early to tell. Much too early to tell if the puppy is even close enough to standard and correct in structure, health, etc. to be a breeding candidate.
You are asking us how to word a contract, but not even sure if the puppies are AKC. If so, the breeder has to know that she either blackens the place where the number is for limited registration, or she leaves it open for full registration. If she has transfered ownership with an AKC application for registration before, then she has to know that she can sell them with limited registration -- which means the person can register the pup but they CAN NEVER register puppies born to this dog unless the breeder initiates a change to the registration. If this breeder does not know this, then they have not been selling AKC puppies. It is right on the front of the registration application. If this is news to her, then she is not selling the pups with registration applications. If that is the case, then there is nothing she can do to prevent others from breeding and selling more puppies without papers, UNLESS she is willing to keep the puppies until they are old enough so she can have them spayed and neutered before selling.
I admire your wanting to help train this breeder but I would
tread softly here. Asking questions is
good, learning yourself is
great. But I would pass on the information in a reference format. Give her copies of information from experienced breeders, a book, or a website if you want to train her.
Take time to learn yourself and be able to speak from a position of researched knowledge. Take your time -- there will always be others to pass on knowlege to WHEN you learn enough yourself. I know this is "an instant age" but being able to provide MEANINGFUL advice takes time and a substantial amount of dedication to learning. Again, passing on what you read by making a copy is GREAT! But I would wait on making the info come straight from you at this point. Even if it is something you feel sure of, have a reference. I have studied for several years, read everything I can find, asked hundreds of questions and bred myself. I still, would not tell the breeder I bought from something without a reference unless I was just relaying
my own experience. Why? Just giving her some
respect for being in this longer than I have. And.... there are so few absolutes....her way may be as good as what I find in another reference.
Of course if you see something immediately putting a puppy into jeopardy --
speak up! But as far as potential breeding sizes of 13 week old puppies, contract verbage, and the like -- I would WAIT until you are more experienced.
One more note: I would not be taking Mac out and about (even to this breeder) until he's older and has received at least some vaccinations. He is already an "at risk" baby and you do not want to subject him to germs, diseases, parasites, etc... Plenty of time for him to socialize later.
You sure sound like the type of puppy owner, everyone wants to see -- seeking knowledge and TRULY CARING for the breed as a whole as well as your own puppies. Just take a deep breath, relax and take this one step at a time.