hm...
have u tried to praise her if she does well????? and try grooming her after a play session. she'll be too tired to do anything. hehe
sorry I can't be much of help.... my pup's a show quality as well and luckily i put a deposit down on her b4 my breeder was 100% sure she'd be show quality so she's under pet contract 

 no so pressure. but coco stays still when i brush her hair. however the top knot on the other hand is painful.