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Originally Posted by ladyjane  All in how you interpret things.  I personally think those who protest often are not so kind themselves at times......but hey..it is how *I* interpret it. Perhaps they think they are the models of kindness. *shrug* |
ok-- I tried not to comment but I just have too...
I don't think being rude and being unkind are the same. I have seen some of the most polite people being absolutely cruel.
I guess if I had to choose... I would take the slightly brass person who has a kind hearth over a passive aggressive polite person. Also, after you get to know someone you can judge better. There are people on this site that are a bit .... rude
,.. but I think I know them from their posts to understand they have hearts of gold and are just trying to help.. it is different for the new members.