Evidently, I didn't express myself well. When I referred to the miss Manners comments I was referring to the "you were rude/mean when you said blah blah blah" comments. I have a problem with anyone telling another poster either how or what they can post (with the exception of the mods

) Rather than being snarky (my perception) wouldn't it be more effective to post in the way you would rather read yourself?
I apologize if it appeared my comment was directed at you. That was not my intention.