Kendra thanks for the reply

and I am not joking when I say this but.......... she got up from my lap a few mins ago and went potty and poo'd on her puppy pad SMALL VICTORY! for mommy anyway hahaa funny you say you have one that will only poo in one place during the winter... I can NOT move her pad or she will not use it... well I did move it back in November...but she did fine with it (for the first time ever) so when she first started this I put her pad back to the place it was before November thinking well maybe she just doesnt like where it is... but then she pee'd on the floor where I moved it from errrrrrrr sometimes I just wish they could talk! I would gladly do the rug thing but she was going on ALL OF THEM! I am going to leave them put up for now then I think I will put them back down one by one and see what happens.. she is enjoying a treat right now

but she is going to be sad because I have been putting her in her crate to sleep all week since I didnt know what she was going to do while we were in bed and she WILL NOT go in her crate... but I think from now on its the best place for her even though I miss her snuggling with me

so spoiled!