Well. Having dealt with a colicky newborn (i.e. up all night) and having to show up for work in the morning ~ I can identify with your frustration. It's hard.
BUT, he is picking up on your frustration, anger; and stress. That is not helping him to sleep in his crate.
And, just like I should have listened with my pediatrician said "Never, ever put your baby in bed with you" . .probably you should not have allowed it either. My own son slept in my bed until I was finally able to get him out. Probably every Mom has heard of the 'Ferber' method. No fun.
Your furbaby is no different. He got used to sleeping next to your warm body and hearbeat and he liked it. He doesnt understand what you are trying to accomplish; he doesn't understand that you are tired and have to work; all that is beyond what he can comprehend. IF you are determined for him to sleep in his crate, you are going to have to tough it out for a few nights. That means, no crying and begging with him. That means, fix up his crate with some lovely warm blankets, a favorite toy or chewy . . and leave him alone. Yes, he will cry for a few night; but he will soon learn that he must now sleep in his crate.
Either that or give in and let him sleep in your bed so you will both get some rest.
Think that's hard? Try it with a baby.
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