My bf and I are constantly arguing over topknot. I like to tie my babies' hair, but he thinks that it hurts them! I told him that if it did, they would help! He's telling me to do it when he's not around so he doesn't know. But why!?!?!?

I hate having my babies' hair blocking their vision. I also hate him cutting their hair short so I can't tie it up! It's short so I can't tie it up, but it doesn't look good. Oh, and he grooms them and it doesn't look good as well. Last time, he used the scissor and "chewed up" Carmel's left ear! Luckily, I didn't let him do it to the right ear!
Does anyone else have this problem with their bf or dh???? Does it really hurt our babies when we tie their hair up into a topknot? I don't use rubber band, I use a tiny scrunchy like material so it doesn't cause knots in their hair.