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Originally Posted by SassyAnn101  I can understand how you are feeling right now. When I got Gizmo (my first yorkie) my husband said either the dog goes or me and my son was going along with the dog. I was younger then so I packed our clothes and Gizmo's things and left. After a week away he called every day, promised to do better if we would come home, and we did. He preteneded to deal with Gizmo and even to love him. At times he would blow up and say bad things about Gizmo only to take it back when he calmed down. When I got Tenci a few years later he blew up again and said I had to choose either the dogs or him. I told him that he could pack his bags. Not too long after that I lost Gizmo, and Tenci was very sick. Later I found out that Tenci had small traces of anti freeze in her blood. Long story short he really hated my babies. I had to choose between them and him. I choose them of course. I left him in 2008, and have not had any regrets for it. I hope your husband was just upset, if he really meant it you can tell by other things he does. Good luck. |
That is horrible! I'm so sorry you had to go through that! I once went out with a man before I met my current boyfriend, who had e-mailed me the day after our date saying he was pi*sed off at his cat for throwing up. It was a huge red flag for me, because who gets upset at their pet for being sick? It's not his cat's fault! Needless to say, I never talked to him again.
To the OP, I'm so sorry you feel this way. Is there a way you can talk to your husband about the way this made you feel? Would he understand what your baby means to you? I know it's easier said than done, but if you can talk it out (even with a friend if you don't want to talk with your husband yet) maybe it will make you feel better. I know for me, if I talk out my anger/frustration I will look at it more rationally and not blow up at the person I'm upset with. That way I'm coming from a more calm place, and I can explain my feelings better. I know it's hard though, and I hope you can feel better soon.