[nana911]

I think you handled it perfectly and your answer was spot on! It is his problem, you are doing fine. My son is in his 30s as well.

Your son didn't pull you aside and say, ''mom we think you are drinking too much, "mom why do you hate my wife, "mom why are spending all our inheritance down at the casino, shouldn't you be home more?"""

There are alot of things that some sons can complain about their mothers...this...is not one of them.

I wouldn't bring it back up. He said what he thought needed saying, you replied perfectly. Let sleeping dogs nap. You love him, he loves you (or he wouldn't have felt close enough to have broached the subject)... all is right with the world. God bless us everyone!!