My reply would be something like, (with question marks all over my face) "Oh, and when I was obsessed with you like this it was OK and normal? Maybe we have a grown man here who is just jealous of a small dog? I think you are the one with the problem. Get some help." Maybe he'll think about it & feel pretty silly & petty. He's living his life, and you can live yours. He ought to be happy you have some joy in your life. |