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Originally Posted by celstu1  Sometimes I am too naive or innocent for my own good... but I always try to be hopeful for someone else.
Luvsdogs2 - Please take to heart that people here LOVE this breed, they are passionate about them and they want to see each and every dog in this world loved and treated right. We have (as a forum) seen and heard some HORRENDOUS things happen to dogs that would make a grown man cry like a baby. Ladyjane does work with dogs that sadly came from the worst of the worst. Her hopes and intentions for each dog is bigger than anyone Ive ever seen or heard. It physically hurts her (and emotionally and mentally) to hear of a dog being mistreated in any way. As it does for a lot of us.
If you are TRULY in need of help/advice for your dog, please stay and learn and let us know how this goes. If you are putting us on or making up stories, please GO. When I look my babies in the eye and I see all the love in the world shining there, I know there is no greater gift in my life. I know that it is ME who is blessed to have them and their unconditional love. Yorkies are a unique breed of dog. You need to give Bdog patience, love, time and more love. I could not stand to think that your beautiful girl, your loving, wonderful, sweet girl is not getting all the love that she so deserves, because she loves you, despite everything, she does. |
Celstu1,
I'm responding as I'm reading the new posts, so I apologize for the rapid postings. I am a very, very busy person...and if you go back and look at the posts, times and responses, you'll see that I have invested time in this...and with my duties, I don't have a lot of spare time. I love wrenching on cars, I'm currently using my engineering schooling to design new parts in the industry work I do - put it this way, I cater to our men and women fighting for our country and the law enforcement officers that keep us safe at home. I have my business, I have my fiance, I have school, I have little alone time - so with all of my interests and hobbies/duties - do you all think that I'm here just to lie and ruffle the feathers??
After your last post, I really am touched that it appears that I'm being seen for what I am. I'll clue you in a little more on why I'm not quick to put myself out there altogether. I'm acting as anonymous because animal neglect and abuse is a FELONY. Now, I'm not nervous in any way that I am at risk of ANY conviction, but all it would take is some yahoo thinking they were acting on a noble deed to start an investigation which would put my business at a screeching halt while any investigation was taking place. THEN, I have to fight to get my business back into operation. Then, I get to drop a bunch of money on the lawyer and file charges on the person that started the investigation.
So, it's kind of serious that I don't give somebody the opportunity to get smart because I disciplined a dog in a manner that is just disagreeable between some owners and others. Now, after doing extensive research, I have found that I was without a doubt wrong and uneducated at the time. I am now, and you should see the work in progress on this dog. I don't doubt she is going to get it now and as my fiance sees the progress, she is going to be on board 100%.
Ladyjane, I'm glad one of the patrons on this site forwarded me your posts so I could see them. First, private messaging is private and not for public viewing. I can easily post your things too but I have a higher regard for respect and integrity. I don't care if you saved 100 or 1000 dogs, your conduct and candor is less than honorable towards me. You talked about pitting one member against another, yet you are attempting it yourself. You told me you don't appreciate _______ in your private message, but in the same message, you did the same thing to me. That's awful arrogant and hypocritical, and I don't know why you continue and persist. Please leave me alone, or check your feelings at the door and offer suggestions that don't involve removing the dog. I'll admit, I was angry when I started my membership, but I think it's clear to see that anger is often accompanied through frustration and ignorance. If you can't see me through my posts and intent, then you need some Lasik or something. If you think I'm referring to you in my posts, I don't know what to say - you've been on ignore...and I'm not that petty. I apologize for the harm done up until now. If you continue, that's on you. If you would like to move on, I'm more than interested.