I was 30 when I had my son (No I was not expecting to be pregnant). I can't say I was ready but it happened and i am glad it did. I know now I would not have been ready to have a child younger than that. I had already sowed my oats and got partying out of my life when I had him. This I am thankful for because it is a huge financial responsibility and personal sacrifice. I would definitely do it again if I could....I can't now so he is an only child. He is 14 now (oops..just told you my age) and I have watched him grow into a young man. It breaks my heart to know he will graduate high school in 3 years and I'll be all alone again but then I can look forward to grand kids in the future.
What I'm trying to say is make sure your ready. Don't second guess yourself... children are like our furbabies...they need alot of attention prolly even more than our furbabies.
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