Thanks for response. I do not undervalue the seriousness of the whelping process. Nor do I think I deserved the hate and labels of an abuser. I do not show any understanding to a person who does things like labeling and hating, especially while making assumptions. I refuse to stand by and allow this too happen without a response. I have spent time on here before formally joining to learn as I have with other resources, but that was assumed that i didn't and couldn't do that.
I bet I would have hadalot of different reponses had I just talked about the one pup that passed away this moring. Would have been a whole different conversation.
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Originally Posted by Wylie's Mom  It is fine to express opinions regarding this thread, because that is allowed on all threads. However, please try to show some compassion. There is nothing wrong with telling someone how you feel, while couching it in a bit of compassion...and a bit of understanding, regardless of the situation.
I think Jim said it best in that, this is a very tragic but preventable loss. It is very sad, on so many levels.
Ron, it is too late now - but I sure wish you had had a mentor to help you with this whelping. Whelpings are life and death situations, and in this case, it resulted in deaths. Please understand that it's difficult for many of us to fathom how one could allow a whelping/breeding to occur without first having exhaustive education regarding breeding. We see tragedies here at YT similar to this, so people are (understandably) very emotional when they see losses such as this. Also Ron, it doesn't help that your replies are pouring fuel on the fire, intentionally. It is up to you too, as a member, to show some understanding in terms of what others may be feeling. It goes both ways.
Please get your precious girl spayed, and take this experience to heart. I wish your girl the best of luck as she heals from this. |