I just read through this whole thread and I'm busy with "Poppy is Home!!!" and I really don't think you should go over to his house. The other members are right, something seems very fishy about him calling up and apologizing all of a sudden.
And I think you didn't suspect his motives because if you were in his position, you would feel guilty and phone the person to apologize. But a lot of people don't operate that way and they simply don't feel guilty. I don't understand it and you probably won't either, but there are some terrible people out there.
You've already made the right decision and I totally agree. If I were in your shoes, I'd actually phone him and explain why you aren't going over. I'd read the other thread and build up some courage, and then be totally honest about why you don't want any contact with him. You can maybe forgive and forget, but that doesn't mean that you have to open yourself up to unscrupulous people! Protect yourself and Poppy
