Hummm, mixed feeling here
Years back i decided i wanted to be a stay at home wife
....All went well for the first few weeks, I got bored FAST. Really there are only so many times you can shop, lunch dates, beach, pool, clean, yada yada before that becomes routine and looses the thrill and enjoyment.
9 years ago i landed the job I'm currently at....LOVE MY JOB
and the people I work for. i can take as much time off as i want (of couse w/o pay) and love it. I'm leaving on the 8th for my annual all girls NYC trip
I never want to be a stay at home wife again,
I'm sure if i had kids i would think differently, but don't