On a different track though, I know sometimes people will go off about something, but may be concerned or upset about something else or a deeper issue. (I watch Dr. Phil sometimes
and he says sometimes people fight about the "symptom" and not the "issue") idk...this is only my observation though...[/QUOTE]
I think that this post might be worth thinking about. Maybe he's stressed about something at work and he is projecting. I suggest that you make him feel like he's making the decisions by giving him two choices. (Both that you would be happy with.) Let him "choose" which he thinks is the best. Acknowledge his feelings and tell him that you value his opinion. Tell him that from now on you want to make the decisions together. Men like to think they are in charge. HA!! But at least you can make him think he is. Hope this helps.