I'm sorry you feel this way, I try not to be rude with people because I don't find the need to be, if they will not listen when you try to get your point cross on a well manner, I think they will listen less if you are rude to them, they get all defensive and put their guard up, and his twice hard to have them listen to you. I also understand is about the dog, but the bottom line who own these dogs?
people, they make the ultimate decision on their pets life, unless someone call animal control on them. On the other hand, some people are certain way and they are not going or want to change, that is how probably they been treated and/or brought up, or circumstance in their life make them that way, they honestly don't know how; so you have to learn to tolerate them, I guess
I have respect here for some good old members, because they will do what ever it take to help somebody and/ or a furbaby, they are just good heart it people, and that is why I decided to stay, through the years I have make good quality friends in here, few but awesome people, and also looking forward to make new friends, because any newbie here have potential to become a" good old member", jmho
See my signature, who ever you feed the most, that will dominate, the foul side or the blessed side is a choice. Hugs and puppy kisses
Greta