From your post, your'e still pretty young, have time to decide and right now it seems it's not in your heart to have them. That could change in say 6 years.
For me I wouldn't change having a daughter for the world. I was 19 when she came along. A surprise pregancy and I had to grow up awfully fast. At the time many of my friends weren't parents or married. I was in a committed lt relationship and had a kid (culture shock). But now most of my friends are married and starting to have kids. My daughter is 7 now and we have a yorkie and manage our time, family time, school, etc just fine. I'm single now and would like to have at least one more, but that doesn't deter me from my love of animals.
Goodluck in your decisions. |