bribunny--I am very sorry that someone's comments made you feel bad, especially when you were undobtedly already worried about your little one.
Generally speaking, when people complain about not liking the 'way things are' on YT, I always wonder
"if you hate it so much, why are you still here?" Presumably because your positive experiences outweigh the negative. Otherwise, it would just be silly to stick around, right?
I always just assumed that was the case with ANY internet site/forum. With a large site such as this, naturally there will be answers and beliefs from one end of the spectrum to the other. I see frequent post here that really irritate me, and I've certainly had my fair share that ruffled feathers as well.
Not everyone is going to agree with you 100% of the time and not everyone is going to phrase their responses the way
you think they should. So, you can look past what you disagree with and concentrate on the positive, you can dwell on it to the point of insanity, or you move on. Expecting everyone to change until there is overall harmony certainly isn't going to happen.