Alot of times the abuser will tell the abused it's their fault. Is he saying it's her fault because she doesn't love him, or he doesn't feel she loves him? No excuse Mel. There has to be more to it. I have to wonder if she doesn't help push him along from a distance, such as over the phone. That way she has proof and might get more in a settlement? The child is security that she will get money from him no matter what.
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