I totally agree with the above posts......Bailey is crying for attention. He does not understand why all of a sudden he can't sit with you or be in the same room as you. He thinks he is being punished and is no longer a member of the pack. I think spraying him with water will only add to him feeling insecure. By peeing and pooing on the floor, he is trying to get any kind of attention from you....granted this is negative attention, but it is working to some degree. Is the kitty allowed on furniture? Is the kitty gated to the same room as Bailey? This could also be an issue for him as well. I would suggest that you allow Bailey the same privileges as he had previous to your boyfriend moving in and see if this behavior doesn't turn around. Good Luck.
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