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Originally Posted by WV~Yorkies  I am so sorry what you are going through and don't want to sound mean but kick his ass out the door girl. You keep him around he keeps investing more in the house the more you will have to pay later on to keep it. This is his 3rd time. It is going to keep happening...he has proved that. Maybe try to rent out a room in your house to help make the payment. I know the house is special to you but you are giving up your happiness for it. Even if you lose it you never know what the future may hold. You could get it back one day. Don't waste your life and love on someone that does not apprecitate it. You deserve better!
As far as the puppy if it causing you pain you need to sell her asap. You don't want something that is going to cause you pain every time you look at her. When you get a new puppy you need to look at her with love not painful memeories. I am not saying you don't love her but she is going to be a reminder always. |
Totally agree- going to keep happening so you need to decide if that is something you can live with because it's not going to change.