So sorry you are going through this & I know any decision you make will be a very difficult one but you have to do what's best for you.
Can you secretly start looking for roommates, maybe family members who may be needing a place to stay? That way, you'd have them lined up and ready to move in so you can have a little cushion & help.
I would consult an attorney to see what you should do to protect you & your family's property, then I would file a petition of eviction for him which I think has to be at least 30 days. That's why I would use that time to get some roommates lined up.
Only you can make the decision, I think you know what you need to do. If you truly feel this is going to happen again, it should end. If you think there is a possiblity, you need to suggest counseling and make this the very last attempt.
Hugs & best of luck! |