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Originally Posted by Ute White  Could one of the reasons of all this drama be that most of us members are women? 
Most of my co-workers are women, there is always drama going on. "She said this and she said that, and do you know what she did now..?" I rather work with 20 men instead of 5 women...lol. I'm only human, I love a good gossip but if it comes to attacking and back stabbing I'm out of there. Another reason is, as said above, we are on an internet forum, most of us don't know the others by face and it's so much easier to talk like this incognito.
Hopefully I haven't offended anyone. |
Nothing against my own gender
, but I agree with this. I don't see or experience the level or type of drama with men that I see with women. In addition, there are some women (not all
!) who go to a level of viciousness that I don't really see in men at all. Those women sometimes reveal themselves right away -or- it happens over time. When it happens over time, after a relationship has already developed - that's when the viciousness is not just ugly in and of itself, but it also causes sadness, in my opinion, because of the breach of friendship and trust.
There is a true line between a little gossip and real, INTENTIONAL
viciousness. The difference is very easy to see. Whether or not people want to see it, *shrugs*, well that's a whole other topic
.