Baby Yorkie, as you wrote in your thoughtful post on the "Wits End" thread, every dog is different.
Different things work for different pups and their people. I have also found that after a year here, my thoughts and opinions have changed and grown on various topics.
Keep in mind that a lot of YT members have years of experience raising many Yorkies, and they have been sharing info here for a long time. As a relatively new Yorkie mommy, I am so thankful for them!
If someone disagrees with you, they aren't shooting you down. Stick around, and don't take anything too personally.