In the ring, bows and topknots are standard for males or females. Don't worry about your friends, do what you want! I love the way red looks on Joey, and try to stay away from girly bows, but I have one lavendar one with a teddy bear and it's so cute, but all my friends think I'm nuts anyway.
Check out Ladymom's boy bows.
M'Lady's Dog Bows - Boy Bows Page 1