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Originally Posted by LuvMyPuppE  the only time i ever want to have sex is if i've had a few drinks! sad, but true!
i blame it on having 2 small kids and my husband is basically a 3rd kid - always having to clean up after them all day long. when they finally go to bed, i just want to be left ALONE!
i don't really mind having sex, but i don't initiate it cus i just have no desire. i was honest with my husband and told him just what i said here. i think he was relieved actually cus now when he wants to have sex he just tells me and we can cut right to the chase. he's exhausted by the end of the day anyway so knowing i don't care for a marathon is fine with him! |
Yep this is me too! To the op... Girl, maybe it's not you at all! Maybe it's him that is just not getting you goin anymore! Why do we always blame ourselves!? I just have trouble getting in the mood with dh after i have to wash his nasty underwear or stepping into a big wet puddle in front of the toilet(in my socks of course!
) We girls sometimes can't forget all that crap we have to put up with! Men are different...they can have sex with a woman they dislike just to have sex. I know we have needs but we also need to feel apprechiated & loved. So ask yourself...What has HE done for me lately?