[manolos mom]

Originally Posted by DerbyLayne

Yes sex.

Mostly because I have lost interest in it for, what seems like, a really long time and it's causing some conflict in my marriage. I have seen a counsellor regarding past issues, and while it helped me to change my attitude about sex and love, it didn't change the amount that I want to have sex. I can dream about it, but I never feel like having it. My hubby just told me that it started to go downhill as soon as we got engaged, although I swear it didn't. Thoughts? Advice? I'm a month shy of 30, and I love my husband very much. I want to want sex more, but I don't know where to turn with this issue.

You need Spark back in your sex life. Men like straight up sex and women need to be dated first. Like when you first met. I say take him out to a classy Strip joint and buy him a lap dance and just sit back and watch. He will love it and so will you. Go to a movie and sit in the back row and make out. Its fun. You need naughtiness in your life.