[jp4m2]

Yen, I'm just now seeing your post ......I'm so, so, sorry for the sudden and unexpected loss of your DaVinci.......

I know all too well the overwhelming grief and guilt that can come from a loss such as this. I sometimes wonder, if we had had time to prepare, to be able to say goodbye,would it have helped?

The tremendous grief can be compounded by the nagging guilt of wondering if we did the right things.....Please try and remember that not everything is always in our control. We might like to think it is... we hope that it is....but there are times when it simply isn't. Rarely can we say, "no one was at fault; it simply happened." Rarely can we accept that nothing could have been changed or done differently.... Please know that you are not alone.....

The pain in your heart is completely understandable......When you
love that intensely, it is almost impossible not to feel it.......With time you don't get over it, you just get through it, it doesn't 'get better', it just gets different...... My thought are with you.....RIP DaVinci.......