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Originally Posted by danniko  Sophie is getting a brother on the weekend!
I just need some help getting over some of the guilt I am feeling. Sophie is 9 months old and has been the center of my world...I don't want her to lose that bond with me and I am worried that she will be angry and hate me and never be the same.
She is fixed and up to date with all of her needles. We weren't looking for another one, it just sort of happened.
He is 12 weeks old, a "splitter" and from the same breeder as Sophie (we stayed in contact). I am just really worried about Sophie and how it will make her feel. I love her so much and this guy is going to be bigger than her (I don't want another tiny one)...I just keep looking at her and wanting to cry knowing her world will be turned upside down this weekend.
I just need support and to know that this guilt eventually does go away. I am excited and nervous all at the same time lol
Help calm me down lol |
Congrats on the addition!! I have been actually thinking of doing the same thing! And have all of the same concerns that you have. I do agree with the fact that she will have a new best friend, and having another one keeps her busy at all times. I have always reassured myself that when it is time for a new baby, Trudy will still get the same amount of time and love. It just so happens that I have a lot of love to give! Best of luck with your babies. Please keep me posted, I will be very interested in how they do together!