Well I am not a breeder and certainly not a member of any special YT group, since I am fairly new myself and while I am not going to touch most of your post.
There is a HUGE difference between a good/reputable breeder and a BYB and it is not something they deem themselves... there are ways to determine and prove which type of breeder someone is from the outside.
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