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Originally Posted by maryeverett1  If someone doesn't take advice it doesn't give any of us the right to hurl personal attacks! And SHE DID ask the questions in the best interests of her dogs! If someone asks the question they are thinking about their dogs! There is never ever ever EVER a time where it is ever appropriate to be rude, insulting or disrespectful to another person! And it certainly doesn't make a person (like the OP of that thread) want to take any advice when they are being attacked and picked apart for things. There is always a way to say that very same info in a kind, respectful, informative and non judgemental way. The advice in that thread was not wrong but the way it was given was completely out of line and therefore those dogs who could have been helped now probably won't because the OP probably only saw attacks instead of helpful advice given with compassion and in a respectful manner.  The elevator needs to go to the top floor on how to communicate effectively with one another and there are a handful of people who just don't get it. Very sad.  |
One must realize that this is an open forum. Granted her physical challanges should have never been attacked. What in my opinion was being challaged was this person's lack of knowledge in all things dogs.
As I said, in the first couple of pages of the post, advice was given in a a respectful, informative manner. I for one will never condone breeding without knowledge and breeding to supplement ones income. Have I attacked people, yes, although rarely, but, when I see that they are wasting peoples time by asking questions, get upset when they don't get the advice they want to hear and continue to do what they are going to do. Then come back on and ask for help again......
As stated already: Breeding a female that showed signs of abuse at a year of age and then breeding her again. Breeding females with aggression problems; had drawn blood, killed puppies.....This person is very unprepared.
I'm on the side of the dogs....they don't have the ability to speak.