Sorry to say, but it sounds like your bf has some issues with authority. he seems to feel as if your yorkies should be able to get away with not listening to anything you say....I hope he isn't like this in other areas of your life. Take a hard look, cuz can you imagine what it would be like with children!! I assume you have tried explaining to him that yorkies do better with set rules so that they understand what is expected of them. I don't have any answers for you, but I do feel for you and the situation you are in. Perhaps your bf needs the timeout lol!