Do breeders ask about alternate care plans for pups in situations when placing with younger people? It could become standard language for anyone looking for a pup, the big What If questions. The breeder I got mine from went so far as to ask if my hubby and I had any future baby plans because that would factor into her decision about whether to place a pup...
I have to say, I am a protection social worker, and the care and consideration that you are giving to your pups in finding them a forever home is comprable to what I do for a living!!