I've read all the posts and I kind of feel like some of the others. He may not have really meant what he said the way it sounded. I would try to open up the communications and see (over time) what the "real" attitude is. From everything else you've said about him, he sounds like a pretty nice guy. On the other hand - I would use the babies as a way to find out about anyone you were looking at getting serious with. To me the biggest way to tell about someone is how they treat their mother and animals - especially animals that are loved by someone he's supposed to love. I wouldn't necessarily give him up right now but pay attention. Actions speak louder than words. |