LOL i feel you girls! I suppose I lucked out with mine. I have a very large Calico/Tiger kitty named Bella and my little Yorkie named Lola. My fiance' is a very large guy at 6'5" and approx 280lbs, so next to him they look so tiny! When we got my yorkie, she was my doggie from the get-go, the cat, suddenly feeling the loss of a attention i suppose, made her way into her "daddy's" heart and now is definately more attached to him than me. Lola is a mommy's little girl though and follows me almost everywhere. They have their moments when they like to switch sides, but they mostly keep to their favorites i suppose. It's awfully sweet though when we are sitting and watching tv as a family and i've got the yorkie in my lap and he's got our kitty in his.
