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  I have a neighbor with MS that I help out  - She never asks but I know she has a hard time when she has to use her chair....In your case - if this woman really has a hard time doing such things as the trash etc - then I'd still help her - if it's something she CAN do on her own but knows she can call you...then I'd think she was taking advantage of you.  I guess it depends on what her capabilities are.  |