i am new here and joined because i'm a research geek and found this to be the best place to learn how to parent my yorkie. indeed, i have gathered immeasurable and truly helpful information from yt.
that said, i see no judgement or any desire to cause a "tif" or even be controversial in anything you wrote. i did not see you calling any individual out, mention any members' name in a derogatory fashion, or even call attention to the specific threads you find troubling (didn't need to, either). i researched your previous posts (i'm so going to try your shampoo and conditioner suggestion on lulu, btw!) and it's obvious to me at least that you've been a positive voice here.
i understand that the points you were making were not a result of you yourself having a negative experience here and am unsure why anyone would find your words contradictory. i find them to be empathetic. i get that you have observed what i will call the unkind treatment of others (as have i) and were posting on their behalf, and with only the best of intentions towards yt. you did not have to go to that trouble and it took guts to do it.
hopefully, people will take the time to actually consider what you've written before they reply. your post deserves it...in my humble, newbie opinion.
