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Originally Posted by mizzwanned  Thanks for that. Yes i was getting frustrated before because he would always stay at work and drink with the guys, and wouldn't call. These guys are not good influences but well anyway. I did talk with him about that and that is when we almost broke up. It was our 4 yr anniversary and something happened. I was fed up with him doing the same old things so i decided not to hang out with him when he had off work, the day after our anniversary. He changed after that. Well he got angry first, because i ditched him for our 4 yr and then we spoke about it. Since then he's been calling..a lot. I actually stopped calling him. So he's been calling me..he's been telling me what he's doing and spending a lot of time with me. We'll go out more together and have our dates. He even asks me to spend even more time with him but this time I say no. Before i would say yes and go to his house really late after work because he lives 5 min away. But now i tell him i am busy..and if it's too late i won't go at all. I'm not going to let him treat me like that anymore. Before all this happened he did put me first and treat me like a princess. Then things changed when he started working.
But If he ever goes back to his old ways i'm done for sure..not even thinking twice about it. |
Good for yhoue.
And also JMO, but if, after 4 years, a guy has not figured out whether or not he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, he is just waxsting yiour time.
I hope you doln't think we are ganging up on you. this is just girl talk, and many of us have been with Mr Wrong and tried to make it work. Made excuses for them, overlooked their short comings, decided they were better than being alone, Well if you are the only one trying, then time to move on.
As I always told my daughters, You cannot meet Mr Right while hanging on to Mr Wrong.