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Originally Posted by mizzwanned  No I know. He was saying today they were making him drink and I told him 'you are responsible for what goes in your mouth not them, so you can't blame them' i completely understand it was his own fault. What i meant was they were with him. If it were me there i would have not let him drink anymore. |
I see that you are beginning to understand, but still no quite there. It is not ANYONE else's job to stop him.
I know he is young, but this is where it starts. This is where one learns that YOU are responsible for yourself. NO ONE ELSE.
Keep reading and keep learning, and keep on him about taking responsibility for himself. If you were to marry this guy and have children, you need a partner, not another child.