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Originally Posted by TammyJM  How in the world does he still have that job?!  Around here, the restaurants do not allow workers to drink where they work....not even off duty. I only know this because many years back, my friend's boyfriend was fired from a popular chain restaurant for attending a birthday party where he worked. He was not on the clock, but he was let go even though he was not drunk (just a glass of wine in hand when escorted out). They said that it reflects poorly on the company's reputation. Maybe rules have changed or just do not apply for certain restaurants.
I think that you owe yourself much more credit and should find a guy that has goals other than hanging out at work and getting drunk. You don't want to marry a guy like that (I can only assume anyway)...so why waste your time now with him? But then again, I am much older than you and I, too, wasted my own time with guys that were never going to grow up. I finally decided (not as soon as I should have....28 years old) that I wanted a NICE guy. I am married with two children and have a husband that would rather sit on the couch, dring hot chocolate and watch movies with me. 
Hugs to you...I just hope that you get it sooner than what I did.  |
See...here's the problem. His MANAGER was there and drinks with them! His manager is only about 22, 23. He's the one that called me first, then his other coworker called me. They are all friends. There are 2 managers and he's the more 'laid back' one. He doesn't care that the workers drink as long as they clean up when the shift is done. They even drink with customers...that's what happened last night. It was a private party he was working and after 12 they started drinking. I know when i worked in a restaurant they didnt let us drink...neither did i want to. I do drink socially, with friends but i drink my girly drinks or beers...i dont like the taste of liquor. But when i was working i never wanted to drink. There are some restaurants though that the managers in charge are young and don't care. Anyway yea..I do want a mature guy. I think the problem is we are the same age and he is not as grown up yet. Your hubby sounds wonderful
I would much prefer a guy that likes to stay in and watch a movie, rather than go out with friends.