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Originally Posted by jeanm1963  I know you were thinking about breaking it off , because you said he didnt call you, forgot to call you , wasnt around as much as you wanted him to be, he was putting you second, just please do yourself a favor, dont become " old faithful" !! What I mean by that is, dont let him turn you into the girl he see's Monday thru Thursday, then on the weekends he disapears and gets drunk with his buddies , or stays late with the guys and forgets to call/ see you !! My daughter HAD a boyfriend like that , and it bothered me so much that she couldnt see it with her own eyes, I called her OLD FAITHFUL.. she always there when he had nothing better to do, always there when he got drunk with his buddies and needed her to pick up the pieces. Everything he did that was inexcusable HE used to try to sweep it under the rug , well I finally told her that the rug was like a mountain and it was time to say goodbye. She didnt listen for about a year, she is now with someone much nicer and puts her first, and if/when he goes out with his friends she is always invited and he is much nicer to him... |
Thanks for that. Yes i was getting frustrated before because he would always stay at work and drink with the guys, and wouldn't call. These guys are not good influences but well anyway. I did talk with him about that and that is when we almost broke up. It was our 4 yr anniversary and something happened. I was fed up with him doing the same old things so i decided not to hang out with him when he had off work, the day after our anniversary. He changed after that. Well he got angry first, because i ditched him for our 4 yr and then we spoke about it. Since then he's been calling..a lot. I actually stopped calling him. So he's been calling me..he's been telling me what he's doing and spending a lot of time with me. We'll go out more together and have our dates. He even asks me to spend even more time with him but this time I say no. Before i would say yes and go to his house really late after work because he lives 5 min away. But now i tell him i am busy..and if it's too late i won't go at all. I'm not going to let him treat me like that anymore. Before all this happened he did put me first and treat me like a princess. Then things changed when he started working.
But If he ever goes back to his old ways i'm done for sure..not even thinking twice about it.