How in the world does he still have that job?!
Around here, the restaurants do not allow workers to drink where they work....not even off duty. I only know this because many years back, my friend's boyfriend was fired from a popular chain restaurant for attending a birthday party where he worked. He was not on the clock, but he was let go even though he was not drunk (just a glass of wine in hand when escorted out). They said that it reflects poorly on the company's reputation. Maybe rules have changed or just do not apply for certain restaurants.
I think that you owe yourself much more credit and should find a guy that has goals other than hanging out at work and getting drunk. You don't want to marry a guy like that (I can only assume anyway)...so why waste your time now with him? But then again, I am much older than you and I, too, wasted my own time with guys that were never going to grow up. I finally decided (not as soon as I should have....28 years old) that I wanted a NICE guy. I am married with two children and have a husband that would rather sit on the couch, dring hot chocolate and watch movies with me.
Hugs to you...I just hope that you get it sooner than what I did.
