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Originally Posted by Cha Cha  You sound like a very smart girl, and if that is you in your avatar, you are beautiful! Don't sell yourself short. Listen to yourself here. You deserve so much better than this. It will not change. By loving him, is to help him and you are only helping him continue down a long and ugly path. I was MARRIED, a newlywed! You don't think I loved my DH then? He tells all his friends now what an impact that made in his life and he respects me so much more today because of it. |
Thanks. Well I mean he does have a problem. I think the reason why I helped him this time is because I really don't do it. One other time I can remember this happening and it was a couple years ago when we went to visit friends at their college. That is the only other time i helped him..that one time. He disappeared for the night on campus and I went to pick him up at the hospital the next day. When i think about it, it's happened quite a few times but it has happened around our friends and all those other times they usually all are there so it's not on me. But this time i felt like his coworkers made him my responsibility.