I just got done reading this whole post and let me be on the list of co mending you for being her angel!! I did tear up and then laughed at the comment of how bathing a big dog is different....I have a GSD and I agree it is a major work out scrubbing that big body!! I wish you luck in whatever you decide is best...cause only you will know in time if she will be a great fit with your family! She is just Beautifulllllllll!!