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Originally Posted by Gennies  See you do want her back. Did you sign anything with this lady giving her rights to your dog?
So this lady isn't the new owner, but a foster type of home. I'm sorry, but I do agree with others that she's just looking out for the dog and trying to get the dog to adjust. Sweetie, try putting yourself in your dog's shoes (so to speak). First, you go from your family that you've lived with your whole life and you're to live with some stranger, then your momma comes to visit only you don't know what it means to visit, you think your going home, but then momma leaves and your still with this stranger. Dogs don't understand what's going on. SO I understand the foster not wanting visits right now. If you do go I hope you bring your baby home for her sake, if she isn't coming home with you then I say don't visit. Sorry, I know you may not want to hear that but you need to think of your little one. It's your decision to make no one else's. I recommend that you decide soon, as it's not fair to your dog or the foster who's caring for her. I hope and pray for the best to you all. ((((Hugs)))) |
This lady IS the new owner, not a foster at all. Believe me, I understand where she's coming from and exactly what you're saying. I know it would be confusing for Savannah. I've never had to do this before in my life. I've always had my little ones with me no matter where I had to live in order to keep them. They've ALWAYS come first. If we moved and the place I wanted to live in suited me, but didn't allow pets?....Guess what? I kept looking! You have no idea the places that I've had to go for the sake of my furry companions. I've sacrificed more than anyone will ever know for them. If it came to a choice of me eating or my babies eating, you can bet that they would have the full belly as I was smiling at their content. So, to make a choice such as I have had to face, after all I have endured for them out of the deep love and commitment I have for them......well, it would bring anyone to their knees in sobbing pain. And to sit back wondering if that person is doing all you would do for them and loving them the way you did, is not asking for much considering all the years you have invested in love for the animal. If you didn't worry and fret over it, lose sleep and not be able to eat until your questions were answered, you'd have to ask yourself if you ever REALLY loved them at all. I don't know how to find this out for myself without seeing them together.
And no, nothing has been signed. She would still be considered my dog.