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Originally Posted by Cookie2  Trust me I'm not offended. I know I'm not crazy lol.I am grieving like any loving pet owner would do.If and when I go see a therapist I want to make sure they LOVE animals. I dont want to go to a therapist thats going to tell me to suck it up and move on. I have talked to my husband about this and its something I may need to do soon. I have a lot of support from my family and especially my husband. He made me an amazing DVD slideshow that I started to watch for my birthday but after 20 seconds I had to shut it off. It was too much and I didnt want to burst in tears again.
He told me he cried the entire time making this for me, I told him I was the same way when I made the Youtube video. When I have to email Cookie's picture or go through his picture files I go through it as fast as I can. I'm not ready to sit and look through all his pictures. I must have like over 500-600 pictures of him and Im glad I took so many.
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I am so glad that I didn't offend you. I don't think any real therapist would tell you to suck it up and move on. We had to put one of our dogs (not a yorkie) to sleep a few years ago. He was almost 10 years old. It was one of the hardest things we have had to do. He was suffering from terminal cancer and it was the best thing for him to stop his suffering. I couldn't stop crying for weeks. I felt like someone punched me in my stomach. I still cry about it sometimes. We had closure. You have no closure. That is why it is so hard for you to move on. I really hope you find him. Again, I am glad you didn't take offense to what I suggested. I just want you to feel better. (Your little Monica is so cute!)